Living in London….incredible, gratifying, aggravating, memorable, frustrating, exciting. All of these descriptions could accurately match my feelings at certain points in time over the last two years.
In less than two months, I’ll be moving back to the New York City area, the place I used to call home for eight years prior to my move to London and a city I love with all my heart. I’m looking forward to it, but I can’t deny that I’m also going through a wide range of emotions on a daily basis when it comes to leaving London.
I hope this article can be a resource for other Americans who are considering the move abroad. Or really anyone who is currently living here and getting used to a brand new routine in London, a routine that’s different from the life you came from…
1. Transportation System (Transport for London)
I know I’ll miss –
*Observing the flurry of activities, people and London sights from the 2nd floor on a double-decker bus. There’s no view like it.
*The efficient tube (e.g. subway) system. The intervals between trains (generally every 2-3 minutes) is short and timely.
I probably won’t miss –
*Hearing the announcement informing us there is “good service on all underground lines.” Good service should be the norm, right? It’s as if they want us to be surprised when there is actually good service on all lines!
*Complex transportation cost structure and costs. A five minute tube ride from Waterloo to London Bridge station cost me $3.50 the other day. Additionally, the system is broken into zones and the prices vary for “on-peak” and “off-peak”. I’ve studied the pricing a number of times and I still get confused two years later.
2. Grocery Stores
I know I’ll miss –
*Product names like washing up liquid, bin liners, digestives, cling film and rocket.
I probably won’t miss…
*Grab n go sandwiches dressed with mayo or relish. Easy and convenient but I can’t wait for a made to order New York City deli sandwich!
*British mature cheddar cheese – I crave the varieties I grew up eating (i.e provolone, pepper jack)
3. Our London Flat and Neighborhood
I know I’ll miss –
*My neighborhood – packed with great history and old restored warehouses. In Victorian times the whole area was filled with warehouses, mills and factories dedicated to teas, spices, and even beer (very fitting)! At one point it was the site of a brewery founded by John Courage in 1787.
*A stroll around the Thames river waterfront on the south side with views of this bridge!
I probably won’t miss –
*Having to turn on the booster in the evenings when the hot water runs out
*A living room space taken over by wet clothes hanging from the curtain rods and on various drying racks because the dryer actually doesn’t dry clothing.
4. Restaurant and Pub Scene
I know I’ll miss –
*The pub scene in general. It’s awesome.
Especially being able to sit in a pub all day, relax and play a game of scrabble, with no fear of anyone kicking us out – even if we’re not ordering anything new.
I probably won’t miss –
*Hearing the word Americans constantly in pub conversations and listening to others comment on our civilization and culture. There has to be more interesting things to talk about…
*The service levels within the majority of pubs and restaurants. Generally I’ve found them to be slower and way more inefficient than the standards I’m used to.
5. London Specific Things
I know I’ll miss –
*The markets. Maltby Street market is by far my favorite on Saturday mornings near to my flat.
Below, Camden Lock market in London.
*Admiring all the architecture in this city, particularly seeing the contrast of the old and new buildings
*The intricate network of canals all over London. I love exploring the canal paths and watching the boats go through the locks.
I probably won’t miss –
*Getting bumped into 10+ times a day as I walk down the street. (In New York this also happens but at least there’s a general understanding of staying to the right as you walk down the sidewalk.)
*Cars having the right of way. Being afraid of getting run over every time I cross a street or even an alleyway.
6. London as a Travel Base
One of the things I can guarantee I’ll miss the most –
The amazing travel opportunities I’ve had since London has been my home, allowing me to explore a countless number of places throughout approximately 17 different countries in two years! For the complete list of places I’ve traveled to see “Where I’ve Been“.
Summing It Up
Living abroad is an opportunity I will always treasure and for those of you who are considering a move, I can say with 100% sincerity…
GO FOR IT. It’s life-changing!
November 21, 2013 at 11:24 pm
So NYC won the prize, huh? London is definitely a great city, but onwards to new adventures (and breweries). Good luck on your next chapter, I look forward to reading about it 🙂
November 22, 2013 at 8:40 am
Yes. NYC won. I’m excited for some US travel now (I’ve seen way more of Europe than I ever have of the US and as an American I probably should start to get more serious about that!) And of course the brewery scene will keep me very busy back in the US, too. Look forward to keeping up to dated on your travels and life in England as well. Wonderful to meet you at the WTM. Stay in touch!
December 10, 2013 at 3:48 pm
Hi Tanya-
Im so lucky that I came upon your website!!! I’m an eager, under traveled almost thirty something and I am craving some change. I’ve been researching, chatting with my two friends who live outside of london, and planning for this living abroad experience. with that said, I still was nervous. Your blog helped me relax and have a sense of humor about the things I was so nervous about and reaffirm the reasons why I want so badly to be based out of london-to travel and experience a new culture day to day.
I anticipate moving in the summmer of 2015 and living there for two years as well. I have a top 20 list of destinations in Europe,Asia, and Africa and I will need two years to visit all of them.
How did you fit in time for all 17 of your travel spots? Also, what source did you use for finding a flat?
Thanks so much for your help!
Cheers!
Bri 🙂
December 10, 2013 at 4:44 pm
Hi Bri –
Thank you so much for your comments. You made my day! And it’s inspiration for me to continue writing this blog.
Having a sense of humor and not stressing out about little things that are involved in life abroad is so important (I actually could use this lesson myself sometimes when I feel myself getting frustrated or stressed.)
In terms of travel, a lot of our trips were fit in over long holiday weekends, where we could leave on a 6am flight from London, get to Europe by 9am then fly back on a late Sunday night, enjoying 3 full days in one place. But maximizing vacation time is also necessary! For finding a flat, we had the help of an agent but we also used http://www.rightmove.co.uk.
Good luck on your move there. I only have a few weeks left in London before moving back to the US (NYC area) so trying to make the most of it!
January 14, 2014 at 6:47 pm
Hi Tanya, i’m a freshman in college and was looking into doing study aboard. Ever since high school I’ve had a passion for traveling and seeing the world. I don’t want to make this seem like a sob story but I’ve been going through a hard time in college and I would like to do something for myself since i’ve always done what everyone wanted me too. I was thinking that maybe study aboard in London might be an amazing experience, but then I got to thinking that what if I fell in love in with London (of course there is a chance I won’t since I’ve never been there) but where I’m getting at is did you absolutely love Europe? I have a lot of reservations but from your point of view do you believe it is worth exploring? Sorry if this makes no sense!
January 15, 2014 at 9:23 am
Hi Kimberly, Thanks for your comment and for reading my blog. Studying abroad is always worth exploring! I recommend it 100%. But on that note I can’t guarantee you that it will always be easy. There are lots of highs and one of a kind experiences you won’t be able to get if you never live outside of the US, but at the same time an equal amount of adjustments too. I know I will forever be changed after living out of the country for two years – in a great way. Even though there have been difficult times and moments where I wished I was closer to home, overall the experience was absolutely amazing and I will always treasure it. Hope that helps! Good luck.